Without Love….none of us will see God. So, brag all you want about
how much faith you have. According to Paul, there is Faith, Hope and
Love. The greatest of these is Love. When we look at this list, one
should wonder if Love, being greater than Faith, is a necessary
component to

Salvation. I think it goes without saying, that without Faith one’s
salvation is questionable at the very least. We shall see in a bit,
that not only is Love greater than Faith, it is by which we have our
confidence before God. I realize one may argue that it is by the cross
we have our confidence. Yes, the sacrifice of the cross is the debt
paid, but many are perishing in spite of the cross. We have Faith and we
may have the Hope or Expectation, but we see examples in the scriptures
of those who apparently had both yet are denied entry. We can brag
about how much Faith we have. We can brag about our Hope or Expectation
of coming eternal life, but we cannot brag about our Love. Pride and
Love cannot co-exist.
Starting at the very basics:
1. People are either saved or not saved.
2. People can believe they are saved or believe they are not saved.
3. People can believe they are saved and actually be saved.
4. People can believe they are saved and actually NOT be saved.
5. People can be sure they are saved.
6. People can be unsure they are saved.
Some
popular responses from well meaning Christians to the person who is not
saved are …”Have faith…”, “Trust in Jesus…”, “Turn your life over to
Him… “, “Acknowledge Him as your personal Lord and Savior…”, “Confess
Him as your personal Lord and Savior…”, “Repent and be baptized …”
Some
popular responses from well meaning Christians to the person who has
done all this but wonders about his salvation …”Do not doubt…”, ”This is
Satan talking to you trying to get you to doubt…” Refer back to #4.
If one doubts their salvation, is it because they doubt God’s ability to
save or is it because the Spirit is urging them to walk according to
Jesus and they know deep inside that they aren’t? Somehow they sense
that they are not His servant.
Why is it some view that it is
the Spirit convicting a person who has never ‘confessed’, but when the
person who THINKS he has ‘confessed’ and is unsure, wanting to be sure …
it is Satan talking to him? What if…he actually ISN’T saved and this
is the Spirit convicting him, prompting him to confess the truth
whatever that be. Ironically, these same people say we aren’t to judge
whether a person is lost, yet we are quick to judge a person saved. I
would think it is more dangerous for the person to tell him they are
saved when in fact they aren’t. Would not this be judgment too?
Is there a way to KNOW FOR SURE?
Let
me first challenge the notion of ‘confessing with the mouth.’
Biblically we are to confess our belief and His Lordship. Biblically we
can do nothing to earn our salvation. So, the ACT of confessing with our
lips theoretically should have no impact on God’s mercy. We cannot earn
our salvation or through works merit good standing with God.
If
‘confession’ does play some part in our justification or salvation,
then there must be more to this confessing than the mere formality of
uttering a pre-written, rehearsed speech or phrase. First, there must be
truth in a confession for the confession to mean what
it is … a confession. I can say just about anything, confess to murder,
confess to a profession such as doctor or lawyer, profess my faith,
confess that I believe a philosophy of life or political view, but if
the evidence (faith as translated from the Greek) does not support the confession, or if one’s works
(behavior) do not evidence his profession, then he is found to be a liar
and the truth is not in him (to quote Paul). If I say stealing is wrong, then I’d
better not steal.
We are used to saying we love something or
someone, but when push comes to shove, we often bail then minimize our
offense or lack of integrity to any number of excuses. How many times
have we said, “I love you sweetheart,” then a hour later we are in a
fight? How many husbands out there say how much they love their wives,
but first thing when they come home is to ask, “What’s for supper?”
Bottom line is we often say things we don’t really mean. What is
unsettling is that we may not be aware our words are shallow and when
tested, they would fail.
For centuries, innocent people have
confessed to crimes under threat of torture for the quick release from
the inquisitor's tools by means of a speedy death. Likewise, people
have confessed to good deeds for the promise of a good name or favorable
public opinion. With our lips we can both bless and curse. So, it is
not difficult to understand why God doesn’t or man shouldn’t place much
stock in lip service. In fact, the scriptures are littered with
examples.
Proverbs 12:22 (NIV) 22 The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in men who are truthful. Proverbs 26:24 - 28 (NIV) 24 A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but in his heart he harbors deceit. 25 Though his speech is charming, do not believe him, for seven abominations fill his heart. 26 His malice may be concealed by deception, but his wickedness will be exposed in the assembly. 27 If a man digs a pit, he will fall into it; if a man rolls a stone, it will roll back on him. 28 A lying tongue hates those it hurts, and a flattering mouth works ruin. Isaiah 29:13 (NIV) 13The
Lord says: “These people come near to me with their mouth and
honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me.
Their worship of me is made up only of rules taught by men. Matthew 15:8 - 9 (NIV) 8 “‘These people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me. 9 They worship me in vain; their teachings are but rules taught by men.’”
Luke 22:31 - 34 (NASB) 31“Simon, Simon, behold, Satan has demanded permission to sift you like wheat; 32but I have prayed for you, that your faith (evidence - proof) may not fail; and you, when once you have turned again (returned to your senses), strengthen your brothers.” 33But he said to Him, “Lord, with You I am ready to go both to prison and to death!” 34And He said, “I say to you, Peter, the rooster will not crow today until you have denied three times that you know Me.”
This
last example is a perfect illustration of the psychology of man’s
deception. Pride can get in the way of a good confession. We may even
‘accept Jesus’ for recognition or from peer pressure. Peter illustrates
the point. I am sure he was adamant, truly believing he would go to
death before betrayal or denial. Here is the test. Later when faced with
threat, Peter bailed. Likewise, we bail everyday and what is sad, we
justify this retreat by a feigned confession of weakness. In truth, we
love the sin more than Jesus. In truth, we are not under His Lordship,
but we are contending with it. In truth, sin still reigns in our lives
and we are still slaves to it. When we fail this test, rather than
admitting our destiny of eternal conflict with God, we assure ourselves
that our weakness is overlooked and that God will forgive us. Keep in
mind that Satan used similar logic. He quoted scripture and told Jesus
that He would send His angels to protect Him. Read the rest of the
story…
Matthew 4:5 - 7 (NASB) 5Then the devil took* Him into the holy city and had Him stand on the pinnacle of the temple, 6and said* to Him, “If You are the Son of God, throw Yourself down; for it is written, ‘He will command His angels concerning You’; and ‘On their hands they will bear You up, So that You will not strike Your foot against a stone.’” 7Jesus said to him, “On the other hand, it is written, ‘You shall not put the Lord your God to the test.’”
According
to the thinking of some popular evangelists and if Jesus is put under the same microscope, He didn't have enough faith that the Father would protect Him. Are we not in a way
putting God to the test when we so casually excuse our wanton lusts in
the guise of leaning on God’s grace or putting trust in our faith?
Real
Love removes all deception, but understanding love is difficult. Part
of the difficulty is cultural. Our understanding of love is blurred by
emotion, desires and motives. Songs have been written about love, but
are often descriptive more of animal instincts such as lust and revenge
rather than the Biblical definitions of love, thereby supporting the
misdirected and misinterpreted feelings wrongly associated with love.
* tangent time * These same evangelists talk about taking a 'leap of faith' ... well ... the above scripture is the only example of this 'leap of faith'. I won't go into a lengthy diatribe about this word 'faith'. Just let it suffice for now to say this word 'faith' has been polluted, corrupted, twisted, raped, molested and beaten out of its original meaning since organized religion circa 250 AD took over and filtered the scripture from the people, telling them 'just trust' the learned men, the religious experts. Sound suspiciously like the rhetoric of the Jewish leaders of Jesus day. This empty philosophy has replicated into various virulent forms of denominations playing on the 'easy road' to salvation. * end of tangent *
Falling in love…
Falling
in love sounds like one begins to love out of a mishap, a man and woman
lose control on a slippery surface and collide. Love is no accident.
Love is deliberate to the same degree as lust is deliberate. People do
not just fall in love, neither do they just fall out of love. Any
relationship that fails, fails because love was never there. I am
responsible for my love.
“We just don’t love each other anymore…the passion has gone out of it.”
“…
it’s important to remember that the very concept of ‘romantic love,’
which is so celebrated in movies, songs and cheap paperbacks, was
virtually unknown to the ancients.”1
“Love
and romance are not necessarily bed fellows. Authors such as Byron,
Shelley and Keats…passionately argued that it was a crime against
oneself to marry for any reason other than ‘love’ (which was defined
largely by feeling and emotion)…” 2
Love
is not an emotion, but neither is it devoid of emotion, passion or
desire. Love could be better understood as the motivator of good
behavior. I want to stress this connection between love and behavior,
because
love is not seen until it is manifested in behavior. That behavior reveals the motive of the inner man. I will expand on this later.
What others say about love…
“When
you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and
energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.” --- Barbara de Angelis
“You know you're in love when you can't fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.” --- Dr. Seuss
“Love
is a smoke made with the fume of sighs. Being purged, a fire sparkling
in lovers eyes. Being vexed, a sea nourished with lovers tears. What is
it else? A madness most discreet, a choking gall and a preserving
sweet.” --- William Shakespeare
“To say the truth, reason and love keep little company together now-a-days.” --- William Shakespeare
This last one is sadly true. Scriptural love is NEVER absent of reason.
“I adore him… I have never been so happy. I have real love.” --- Princess Diana of Wales
“Everybody
can be great... because anybody can serve. You don't have to have a
college degree to serve. You don't have to make your subject and verb
agree to serve. you only need a heart full of grace. a soul generated by
love.” --- Martin Luther King
“If Jack's in love, he's no judge of Jill's beauty.” --- Benjamin Franklin
“But love is blind, and lovers cannot see What petty follies they themselves commit.” --- William Shakespeare
“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” --- Sam Keen
“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish it's source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.” --- Anais Nin
As
you can see, many people have many different views of love. Even these
people miss the subtly. Little wonder there is confusion. As we
continue, hopefully we will see that some of these quotes come very
close to what the Bible says about real love. Martin Luther King and Sam
Keen are the best because as we shall see, love is important not only
in salvation, but it is the driving force behind the works and services
which are pleasing to God. Barbara de Angelis associates love with
ownership. Investment and commitment are good qualities, but not if a
relationship is the target out of a motivation of ownership. Love does
not seek it’s own. Ownership implies one’s own self interests. Love
seeks the best interest of others. Love is ALWAYS reasonable, contrary
to William Shakespeare. Love is more than sighs, not even close to
madness, often greaves, never blind and never dies as Anais Nin so
states …period.
What the Bible says about love…
Love never fails…NEVER.
1 Corinthians 13:4 - 8 (NASB) 4Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, 5does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, 6does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; 7bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8Love never fails; but if there are gifts of prophecy, they will be done away; if there are tongues, they will cease; if there is knowledge, it will be done away.
1 John 4:15 - 20 (NASB) 15Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God, God abides in him, and he in God. 16We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. 17By
this, love is perfected with us, so that we may have confidence in the
day of judgment; because as He is, so also are we in this world. 18There
is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear
involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. 19We love, because He first loved us. 20If
someone says, “I love God,” and hates his brother, he is a liar; for
the one who does not love his brother whom he has seen, cannot love God
whom he has not seen.
How love is connected to salvation…
First
of all, we can’t take credit for loving God. We love, because He first
loved us. Had it not been for the Father’s first steps toward this
sinful world thorough Jesus, we would never know God and would never
have a reason to love God. Had it not been for His efforts through the
Word we would never know God intimately. God’s love is instrumental in
the salvation plan. If God didn’t love us, He would have abandoned us
long ago.
What is the reason for this salvation/reconciliation if our
love is not of some credit or merit? It isn’t really about credit or
merit, but relationship. Love adds dimension to a relationship. In love
my focus is upon the object of my affections. If I love someone because
they make me feel good, then it is likely my feelings are the focus and
if those feelings should evaporate because of the heat of everyday life,
then that
love is also going to evaporate. One’s beauty, intelligence, money, public notoriety or charm have all been reasons people have
fallen in love.
When that focus is challenged, their love disappears. In truth, they
never loved the person and never had a relationship other than physical.
Relationships are never one sided. Love can be, however.
Relationships can be of a legal nature, physical nature and a spiritual
nature. Husbands have a legal relationship with their wives at the very
least, sons have a legal as well as a physical relationship with their
fathers (they are related), business partners have a legal relationship
to the company and with each other. Now regarding marriage, a man
marries, thereby forming a legal relationship with his wife. She later
develops a disease which hinders all physical, mental and emotional
communications between she and her husband. She is physically and mentally incapable of
showing any affections or fostering any physical or mental relationship.
They still have a legal relationship and this will never change until
she dies or he legally breaks the marriage. This relationship is still a
relationship in legal terms. Even though she is a vegetable, the legal
relationship between he and her still exists and is not one sided. He
cannot be legally married to her without her prior knowledge. She may
not be able to physical acknowledge him and a physical relationship be
impossible, but this does not negate the contractual agreement between
the two.
God and man are physically related in the sense that God
created us and this will always be. Like a father has a physical DNA
relationship with his son which will never change, God is Creator and we
are the created. We can also have a legal relationship with God,
performing duties, rites, liturgy and following lists of rules. We can
acknowledge Him as God, verbalize His authority and yet be void of any
affections for Him. This leads us to another type of relationship, a spiritual relationship with God.
Spiritual relationships, like legal relationships
are never one sided. To be a legal partner, one must have a partner. To
be related physically (DNA) to one’s offspring, one must have offspring.
Whether they are dead or alive is irrelevant. Both legal and physical
relationships are mutual. It is the same with the spiritual
relationships. If I have a spiritual relationship with my wife, she
must have a spirit. I cannot have a spiritual relationship with a dead
women.
In our example of the husband and his invalid wife, we see a
legal relationship, but no spiritual relationship. Also we see his love
for her, but we do not see her love in return. This is how Love can be
one sided but a relationship not be. God loves us. We may not love Him
in return, but we are always loved by Him. Love can be one sided.
I
can have a legal relationship with God, obey rules, rites, verbalize my
faith, confess His Lordship and still lack a spiritual relationship
with Him. The question remains, what is the point of salvation if there
is no spiritual relationship between God and myself. Yes we could
continue to obey rules and regulations, but all these things are
temporary.
1 Corinthians 13:8 - 11 (NIV) 8Love
never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where
there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it
will pass away. 9For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. 11When
I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I
reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind
me.
There
are a couple of key ideas found in this verse. One, that which is
imperfect will disappear. The law was imperfect in the sense it could
not justify. The law was incomplete for if it had to be fulfilled then
it was only a beginning to what was to be greater. The second, as a
child needs a tutor and restrictions, so to we learned through a tutor
and was lead to Christ. When we mature, the tutor is no longer needed
and we continue to walk as men by the Spirit and not carrying out the
desires of the flesh.
I have complied a short list of verses which I think will help establish the understanding of 1 Corinthians 13:10
Matthew 5:17 - 19 (NASB) 17“Do not think that I came to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I did not come to abolish but to fulfill. 18“For truly I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not the smallest letter or stroke shall pass from the Law until all is accomplished. 19“Whoever then annuls one of the least of these commandments, and teaches others to do the same, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but whoever keeps and teaches them, he shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven. Matthew 7:12 (NASB) 12“In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 22:36 - 40 (NASB) 36“Teacher, which is the great commandment in the Law?” 37And He said to him, “‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ 38“This is the great and foremost commandment. 39“The second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40“On these two commandments depend the whole Law and the Prophets.”
Luke 10:25 - 29 (NASB) 25And a lawyer stood up and put Him to the test, saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” 26And He said to him, “What is written in the Law? How does it read to you?” 27And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your strength, and with all your mind; and your neighbor as yourself.” 28And He said to him, “You have answered correctly; do this and you will live.” 29But wishing to justify himself, he said to Jesus, “And who is my neighbor?”
Galatians 2:15 - 17 (NASB) 15“We are Jews by nature and not sinners from among the Gentiles; 16nevertheless
knowing that a man is not justified by the works of the Law but through
faith in Christ Jesus, even we have believed in Christ Jesus, so that
we may be justified by faith in Christ and not by the works of the Law; since by the works of the Law no flesh will be justified. 17“But
if, while seeking to be justified in Christ, we ourselves have also
been found sinners, is Christ then a minister of sin? May it never be!
Galatians 3:23 - 26 (NASB) 23But before faith came, we were kept in custody under the law, being shut up to the faith which was later to be revealed. 24Therefore the Law has become our tutor to lead us to Christ, so that we may be justified by faith. 25But now that faith has come, we are no longer under a tutor. 26For you are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus.
Galatians 5:16 - 18 (NASB) 16But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. 17For
the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against
the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may
not do the things that you please. 18But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law.
Hebrews 7:18 - 19 (NASB) 18For, on the one hand, there is a setting aside of a former commandment because of its weakness and uselessness 19(for the Law made nothing perfect), and on the other hand there is a bringing in of a better hope, through which we draw near to God. Hebrews 8:7 (NASB) 7For if that first covenant had been faultless, there would have been no occasion sought for a second.
There
is some confusion among Christian circles that because the Law saves no
one that we are somehow exempt from obeying the Law. Well, we don’t
have sacrifices anymore (or do we), one Sacrifice, Jesus, once for all.
However, this setting aside of the Law does not give us license to
murder, steal, lie, cheat, fornicate, break oaths, etc. We are saved by
GRACE through faith (the evidence). BOTH grace and faith (the evidence) are gifts. I cannot believe
in the truth until the truth is revealed. God revealed the truth both in
nature and though His Word. He left his fingerprints all over the crime scene. Our faith (evidence) comes by hearing the word. BOTH
are gifts from God. I cannot take credit for the
evidence
(faith) He chose to leave behind. IF I claim I have faith (evidence)
then I am OBLIGATED like law enforcement or mandated reports such as doctors, teachers and counselors to act on it accordingly. Faith
or evidence by itself is useless unless we act on it. This part is very
important. James makes it clear. (More on this a little later, I’ve
jumped the gun a bit.)
James 1:22 (NASB) 22But prove (γίνομαι) yourselves doers of the word, and not merely hearers who delude themselves.
James 2:18 - 21 (NASB) 18But someone may well say, “You have faith and I have works; show me your faith without the works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” 19You believe that God is one. You do well; the demons also believe (verb form of faith), and shudder. 20But are you willing to recognize, you foolish fellow, that faith without works is useless? 21Was not Abraham our father justified by works when he offered up Isaac his son on the altar?
We
see in these verses a great many things related to law, faith and love.
Paul places love above faith in 1 Corinthians. If we are justified by
faith and love is greater than faith, I move that love is the very
reason we are saved. Eternity in the presence of God, without love for
Him would be pointless. In fact, to be in the Presence of God without
love for Him, would be Hell. James point out with the use of the Greek
word γίνομαι, translated here as “prove”, more accurately “
cause to be”, “generate” or “be known as” yourselves doers of the word and not merely hearers who delude themselves. Moreover, we cannot forget what James says about the demons and their behavior. They
believe
(verb form of faith) and shudder. James implies in his letter that
faith by itself is not enough, for if just the presence of faith,
justifies, then the demons are justified, because there is no doubt in
their minds that God is Who He is. So, the differences must be that we
can love God and they do not. They have faith, but shudder in His
Presence. They have the evidence and know without a doubt their destiny.
More on Love’s Role in Salvation in the next blog.
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1.
Sacred Marriage, Gary Thomas, Zondervan, p.13.
2.
Sacred Marriage. Gary Thomas, Zondervan. p.14.